As women we like to think we generally know what men like about us and dislike about us, but do we really? What do men really look for in a wife/girlfriend? I interviewed 7 gentleman to get a closer idea…
First lets take a look on who @FawkYoInk, thinks the most attractive celeb is & his opinions on women wanting kids:
Q – What celebrity are you attracted to most and why? —His answer was – “Alicia Keys – she does everything sexy without the “Sex sales tag look”. I’m not a Big fan of R&B but she seems to catch my ear. She also seems like down to earth woman that would be great to start something with.”
Q – Do you think a female you’re settling down with should want to have kids, and how many? —His answer was – “Of course she should want to have kids. I don’t have any so far and I’m looking forward to being a father, I think it brings maturity. I only want two kids, a boy and a girl so I can experience both sides of parenthood.”
Ok lets mosey on down to @U_Follow_Me_1st and his favorite characteristics in a female and what he HATES for a girlfriend to do in a relationship
Q – Character traits you look for in a girl?
—His answer was – “Someone who can make me laugh, independent & care-free person yet serious when the time calls for being serious & knows what she wants in life.”
Q – What would you hate for a girl to do in a relationship?
—His answer was – “Hide things from me.”
Let’s take a look at @Evry1HatesChrs’s thoughts on age & what he thinks the most important thing every woman should have:
Q – How do you feel about age, is it really just a number?
—His answer was – “Age is just a number for the most part cause somebody whose 18 can be just as mature as a 25 yr old & a 25 yr old can be just as immature as an 18 yr old…So age is overrated sometimes. Me personally I wouldn’t date anybody under 18 for obvious reasons & I think 30-33 would be my range for older even though there’s some fine ass older woman. If u start dating any older she going to be the same age as ur parents or she might got kids a few years younger than u and that ain’t cool. ”
Q – What do you think is the most important thing a woman should have? — His answer was – “A woman gotta have a good personality and have a sense of humor. There’s always goin to be someone who looks better than the girl you’re with but personality is key. She can’t be stuck up or think she better than me. Just be down to earth n not stress or worry bout every little thing that goes on.”
Let’s open up @EatRonzilla‘s thoughts regarding sex & what guys like & don’t like:
Q – Do you think constant sex is a definite necessity in a relationship? —His answer was – “Yes, I believe even though we’re humans, we’re also animals in the end. Sex is natural and not some craze that stated thousands of years ago. Bacteria reproduce with each other. A relationship is one person taking care of all your needs. Sex is a need!”
Q – What are two things you want females to know about what guys really like and don’t like? ––His answer was – “We won’t admit this, but we all want someone that listens to us. Also we don’t like hearing what you don’t do!”
Now let’s take a peak inside of @Infin1te’s mind
Q – Do you have a preference of race?
—His answer was – “NO”
Q -How do you feel about females with tattoos? Good or Bad? Attractive?
—His answer was – “I don’t care either way..As long as it doesn’t take away from their natural beauty and they actually mean something. I don’t like females caught up in “Images” and “Fads” period”
Of course we can’t forget about @KineticalDummy’s biggest turn off & physical turn on.
Q –Turn off?
—His answer was – “My Biggest turn off that females do is trying to ‘’Get Attention’’ in all different kinds of methods. Well some boys are in fact stupid, they might cheat on their lady in a relationship and she might want to make him feel jealous so she would do the same even though she doesn’t want to do it but she’s doing it just for the sake of making him feel jealous as well. Start sleeping around with different men and get called a prostitute just in name of trying to make her real man feel jealous. Other things that most females do that is a turn off as far as I’m concerned is hating on other females, it might be because they are much more successful that they are or they know how to do something they cannot, it is really wrong stop doing it. This problem should be solved when most woman commence being original again.”
Q – Turn on? Physically? —His answer was – “My biggest turn on in a female physically is like……. I would say the whole body, because if you like a female for a part of their body maybe if it’s their face, what if they got burnt or something? You’d leave them and that’s an infatuation love. It doesn’t really have to be the face or the breasts or whatever some times. A Good woman with a good body and a bad personality is like an expensive vehicle with no tyres to move it around. I would prefer a female with a good personality and Natural beauty.”
Last but certainly not least, Lets take a look at @blakeandthecity and his responses to these two questions:
Q – What are some morals/goals/ambitions you think a female should have in
order for you to settle down with her?
—His answer was – “First and foremost class and respect for herself and others. Self respect is huge because not a great many women in my age group have that quality about themselves nowadays. Thus, the rarity of it makes it THAT much more appealing to me. Along with those things an overall passion for achieving her own successes. Everyone’s personal success is specific to the individual and I would like her to be dedicated to the achievement of whatever it is she desires to do or be. Her drive would in turn, drive my own ambitions. Someone who can match and compliment me in that way would be ideal to settle down with.”
Q – How do you feel about religion, do you think your woman should have a strong belief in God, does it matter to you?
—His answer was – “Religion is a MAJOR part of my own life and realistically I would want a partner to share that aspect. I grew up in a strong Christian background and have a great deal of faith in my belief. Religion is the glue that holds me together in times where life becomes difficult to understand and manage. I would be in shambles without it. Having a woman that believes in God and humble enough to serve God as I do is a no brainer for me. That may be the most critical aspect of a solid foundation of a relationship with me.”
As you can see, it is always possible to learn MORE. Listen to some of the things these guys said. Also follow them!